Assuming what someone does and doesn't like is one of the worst kind of assumptions you can make, but even after you've done that the worst thing you can do is change yourself based on what you think they do or do not like; because once you've changed (even if its temporary), once they see that side of you, its hard for them to see the real you, and even if they do see the real you, they think the real you is the fake you and that's when it gets messy.
It can lead to fake relationships, you can be stuck in a cycle with someone for weeks or months or maybe even years. It can make you feel used, but in reality that's what you may of betrayed to them when you showed the changed you.
For example: if you think a guy that you like, likes girls that party and have sex, based on their habits that you've observed, and you change in the girl you think he wants, and then he ends up liking you but not for those reasons, but you think he just wants the sex because its the fake you that you are around him and others at parties, then things are going to get messy. Neither of you are going to want to discuss your feelings, or be your true selves in front of each other, because you are both assuming what the other person wants, when in reality it could turn out that you really want the true same thing but you're both lying to yourselves and each other. 
Relationships now a days seem to be based off of sex and sexual favors, and its becoming tiring, its becoming increasingly difficult to find a guy that's down to just kick back and watch a good old movie and cuddle, or a guy that wants to go to the movies ...and actually watch the movie..I'm not saying the cute holding hands or head resting/ snuggling shouldn't happen because it most definitely should. Or a guy that initiates hanging out like bowling...good old fashioned bowling with a little witty competitive banter. heck, a guy that will actually work out with you and not feel embarrassed by all the other people there. Honestly anything is great, late night walks with no destination where you can just talk and lay under the stars and talk about the universe, or all night drives holding hands and singing to old country songs and then pulling up to an early morning breakfast place where you're the only ones there sat in a little booth at the back scoffing down warm fresh pancakes....blimey I'm making this sound all note bookish.. point is whether its a fancy dinner where he pulls out your chair and holds open the doors, or just laying in bed in your PJ's watching trailer park boys, cuddling, it doesn't matter, it shouldn't revolve around sex. don't get me wrong sex is brilliant but it should be what the foundations of the relationship are based on, think next time before you assume, because otherwise you might just end up losing them. okay rant over, had to get that off my chest... goodnight. xx
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