You meet someone

It’s all good and seems real and different

You have deep conversations with them and learn about their life and their past

You talk every hour of the day and you crave to see them

It gets to the point where you plan out the future with them

Suddenly

Things start to change

You start to talk less and less

They start to become distant

You start to chase them when they show you they don’t care and you’re stuck wondering where things went wrong and the reasoning for chasing them is because you want the person they were when you guys started catching feelings

Things like this is why nobody can fucking trust anyone and why things are so hard in this generation to actually love someone and be in a faithful relationship

This is why people rather stay single and be alone and not stress and be hurt about someone because they know how it’s going to turn out from past experiences. Some people are different though, some will take on being with someone who hurts them knowing damn well their not good for them because for these types of people they rather feel this then have the feeling of loneliness

But mostly for others they grow tired of always chasing someone who doesn’t give a damn about them and they become heartless and distance everyone

When things end on bad terms because of someone going from “baby I’ll never leave you I love you so much”

To them all of a sudden switching up entirely and acting like they never told you anything and dropping all the promises they made you.

THAT PERSON – will act like the victim they will start to play the role of it being YOUR fault just to get rid of guilt of them hurting you because their stubborn and blind to what you do/did for them and don’t want to admit they took you for granted.

The actions from the person who screwed the you over is really important. IF they truly act like you never existed and start to want and get attention from others you just have to let them go no matter how hard it is. They never deserved you.