If your relationship is only stable when you text each other 24/7 then its not going to work out in the long run and thats the harsh reality. If your relationship doesn't function unless you know what each other are doing all day every day, then you will quickly run out of purpuseful conversation; you many be able to talk all the time but what are you REALLY talking about? Is it just filler converastion? because if so..you my friend are screwed. If your other half gets angry at you for not responding straight away or pissed off because you can't facetime/skype or whatever because you are busy and have stuff to do then where is the understanding?.....yes, you should put him/her first but if you have things to do that need to be done then they should understand that without a doubt. They need to know that if you had a chance you would choose to facetime in a heartbeat; but you have to esablish your own life and get things moving in your own direction. If they cannot accept that you have a life too and that it doesn't just pause and come to halt all of a sudden for them then you're going no where in that relationship.
Its a dead end relationshiop beucase if you see any kind of future with them..imagine being married or whatever in the future and being at wokr and them needing to text you ALL THE TIME... no that isn't going to work on any level. People that feel the need to text you that much, clearly either
A) don't trust you
B) feel insecure about themselves
or
C) are just attention seeking
and all of those are shit situations.
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